{"id":4737,"date":"2024-01-26T14:33:24","date_gmt":"2024-01-26T13:33:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/?page_id=4737"},"modified":"2025-12-18T15:13:53","modified_gmt":"2025-12-18T14:13:53","slug":"give-yourself-care-too","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/give-yourself-care-too\/","title":{"rendered":"Give yourself care, too"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-inpage-nav-rea-inpage-nav-block rea-inpage-nav-block front has-margin\"><div class=\"rea-inpage-nav-block__image\" style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/wooden.png)\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"inpage-nav-background\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/wooden.png\"><\/div><div class=\"rea-inpage-nav-block__content\"><div class=\"rea-inpage-nav-block__content--wrapper\"><div class=\"text-wrapper\"><h2 class=\"inpage-nav-title\">Give yourself care, too<\/h2><ul class=\"inpage-nav-list\"><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"section-nav\"><h4 class=\"section-nav--title\">In this section<\/h4><div class=\"section-nav--nav-items js-inpage-nav-items\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">Imagine you are on a plane. Suddenly, the plane starts to shake, and the captain announces you have to make an emergency landing. The oxygen masks pop out. What do you do? Read on to find out the answer and how this relates to being a caregiver.<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">THIS CHAPTER IS DEDICATED TO YOU<\/mark>, the most important person in the life of your loved one with schizophrenia. You are the one who <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">WORKS TIRELESSLY<\/mark> for their everyday needs and keeps them from worsening symptoms, unemployment, and even homelessness. You should TAKE PRIDE in the work you are doing and acknowledge the magnitude of its importance. Never undervalue the change you make for that person and the extent to which your help has impacted their life. However, being the caregiver of a person with schizophrenia can impose a <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">UNIQUE SET OF CHALLENGES<\/mark> that can take control of your entire mind and your entire day, transforming your life for years or decades to come. Caregivers spend between <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">22 and 37 HOURS PER WEEK<\/mark> providing direct care to their loved ones with schizophrenia. They are often \u201con call\u201d for emergencies, many of them being on call constantly. In these circumstances, it can be very hard to think about<br>something else.<br>\u00a0<br>The only way you can rise to these challenges is to make sure you take care of yourself. Remember the question about the oxygen masks? Well, the answer is you need to put your own mask on first before you can help others. And the truth is, you have to do the same when you are a caregiver: <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">YOU NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST TO MAKE SURE YOU PROVIDE YOUR LOVED ONE WITH WHAT tHEY NEED AND EXPERIENCE THE REWARDING BENEFITS OF BEING A CAREGIVER<\/mark>.<br>By being attentive to your own physical and emotional health, you will find it easier to deal with the challenges of taking care of your loved one better. It will help you with adapting to changes, forming long-lasting connections, and recovering from complications. It will also prevent you from becoming increasingly impatient and irritable, angry, or unfair with the person you take care of. The challenges of caring for a person with schizophrenia, especially if that person is a family member, can have an enormous impact on you. Taking care of yourself will make you more resilient,<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">HELPING YOU TO GET THROUGH THE HARD TIMES AND ENJOY GOOD ONES<\/mark><br><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"strongdiet-sleep-and-exercisestrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong>Diet, sleep, and exercise<\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-illustration-rea-illustration-block rea-illustration-block front\"><img class=\"illustration-bg\" alt=\"\"><div class=\"rea-illustration-block__content\"><div class=\"rea-illustration-block__image image-wrapper\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"is-blocked\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"illustration left\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Diet-sleep-and-exercise2.jpg\" style=\"max-width: 52%\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"rea-mobile illustration-mobile\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Diet-sleep-and-exercise2.jpg\"><\/a><\/div><p class=\"rea-site__caption caption-text align-left\"><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">One of the most extensive ways of supporting your mental health is by <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">WORKING ON<br>MAKING YOUR PHYSICAL WELL-BEING BETTER<\/mark>. You might find it less challenging to keep up good mental habits when you have a strong and resilient body as a foundation. To achieve that, it is essential that you take care of the fundamental health practices.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">EAT WELL.<\/mark> Eating a healthy, balanced diet, which includes fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, a variety of lean proteins and a range of healthy fats is necessary to maintain a healthy body. Adopting a nutritious diet reduces the chance of getting chronic diseases, <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">HELPS STABILIZE ENERGY LEVELS<\/mark>, and enhances mood. Avoid sugar and caffeine, as they only provide a quick boost and an even quicker crash. Alcohol and drugs should be avoided as well, as they are not actually able to lower stress. In fact, it could even make it even worse.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">GET ENOUGH SLEEP<\/mark><strong>.<\/strong> Good sleep is crucial for your mental and physical health. Adults typically require around <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">7 to 9 HOURS<\/mark> of sleep. A short nap (up to half an hour) has the ability to make you feel more awake throughout the day. Even a quarter of an hour of sleep during the day can be beneficial. By practicing good \u201csleeping hygiene\u201d you can increase the quality of your night sleep. This involves keeping a <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">CONSISTENT SLEEP SCHEDULE<\/mark> (going to sleep and getting up at relatively similar times each day), abstaining from using computers, TV, and smartphones before bed, limiting caffeine intake, and exercising regularly. You can also create a relaxing bedtime routine that you start <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">30\u201360 MINUTES<\/mark> before you go to bed. This can include anything that helps you unwind, from listening to soothing music or reading a book, to taking a warm bath or meditating for a few minutes. Cutting back on sleep can keep you back from accomplishing more, decreasing your mood, energy levels, and the extent to which you are able to deal with stress.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">EXERCISE DAILY.<\/mark> While experiencing stress and tiredness, exercise might be<br>the last thing on your mind, however, it will actually leave you feeling better after it. Exercising is a stress-relieving and mood-enhancing activity. Strive for at least 30 minutes daily, which you can divide into 10-minute blocks throughout the day to make it more manageable. Small changes like choosing to take the stairs, walking up escalators, running and biking can be good starting points. If you struggle to stay committed to a schedule, you could try joining a class. Exercising every day is a natural way to release stress-reducing hormones, increase your energy levels and enhance your health in general.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">PRACTICE A RELAXATION TECHNIQUE<\/mark>. Practicing breathing exercises, progressing<br>muscle relaxation and meditating are simple and fast methods for reducing stress. When you get into an argument with your loved one, such methods can help ameliorate the impact intensive feelings have on you and provide a space where you can peacefully contemplate your next actions. Some other ways to reduce stress and boost positive feelings can be practicing yoga or mindfulness meditation. As little as a few minutes during an intense day could benefit you by making you <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">FEEL MORE BALANCED<\/mark>.<br>\u00a0<br>Taking care of these basic needs will help you a great deal in <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">OVERCOMING THE STRESS<\/mark> of unexpected situations that can potentially last for a long time.The COVID-19 pandemic added another layer to the burden of caregivers all around the world, making it even more important to look after yourself in order to be able to take care of your loved one.<br><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"strongreduce-stress-and-avoid-burnoutstrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong>Reduce stress and avoid burnout<\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">Taking care of a person with schizophrenia <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">CAN BE A STRESSFUL EXPERIENCE<\/mark>.<br>Because caregiving is usually a challenge of a long duration, the emotional hit can build up and form gradually. It can be especially disappointing when everything seems incomprehensible and hopeless, and even after putting in the best effort, your loved one\u2019s condition is slowly worsening. Additionally, believing that you are the only one responsible for doing everything will make your stress levels rise.<br>As a result, <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">STRESS CAN AFFECT YOU BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY<\/mark>. Some of the most frequent signs and symptoms of caregiver stress include:<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-list-rea-list-block rea-list-block front\"><div class=\"rea-list-block__wrapper\"><div class=\"list-unordered list\"><p>feeling anxious, depressed, and irritable;<\/p><p>feeling fatigued and worn out;<\/p><p>finding it difficult to fall asleep;<\/p><p>having exaggerated reactions to insignificant annoyances;<\/p><p>having new health problems or deteriorating present ones;<\/p><p>finding it difficult to concentrate;<\/p><p>experiencing more indignation;<\/p><p>consuming a lot of alcohol, cigarettes, or overeating;<\/p><p>avoiding responsibilities;<\/p><p>reducing the time spent on<\/p><p>recreational activities.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">When a caregiver\u2019s stress is not inspected, it can negatively impact your mental health state and relationships. In due course, it can lead to <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">CAREGIVER BURNOUT<\/mark>, a state of emotional, mental, and physical depletion that is harmful to both you and your loved one.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"stronghow-to-recognize-caregiver-burnoutstrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong>How to recognize caregiver burnout?<\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">It is essential to be able to recognize the signs of <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">CAREGIVER BURNOUT<\/mark> in order to act upon it right away and avoid its aggravation. This will <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">IMPROVE THE CIRCUMSTANCES<\/mark> for you as well as the person you take care of. The following are an indication that you are experiencing caregiver burnout:<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-list-rea-list-block rea-list-block front\"><div class=\"rea-list-block__wrapper\"><div class=\"list-unordered list\"><p>you observe a drop in energy compared to before;<\/p><p>you experience exhaustion consistently, even if you rest, sleep and take enough breaks;<\/p><p>you fail to look after your own needs, either due to being too busy or simply not caring anymore;<\/p><p>your life is oversaturated with<\/p><p>your caregiving responsibilities; however, you get barely any satisfaction from them;<\/p><p>you catch yourself reconceptualizing your values;<\/p><p>you find it difficult to relax,even with help at hand;<\/p><p>you get progressively more impatient and irritated with the person you care for;<\/p><p>you feel an inner emptiness;<\/p><p>you feel helpless and hopeless.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">The signs and symptoms of burnout are very much <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">ALIKE TO THOSE OF DEPRESSION<\/mark>. Burnout is considered a form of depression, and it should be taken <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">SERIOUSLY<\/mark>. Inform your physician or a mental health professional once you observe the signs of burnout or you think you might be depressed.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"stronghow-to-avoid-caregiver-burnoutstrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong>How to avoid caregiver burnout?<\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">There are many things that you can do to reduce stress and avoid caregiver burnout. The following steps can help you gain back the sense of balance, joy, and hope in your life.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">PRACTICE ACCEPTANCE.<\/mark><br>It can feel very natural to have the need for questioning and trying to make sense of a situation, especially at the encounter with this unfair burden of taking care of a loved one with a mental illness. This way you are bound to spend an enormous amount of energy overthinking things that are not under your control and which have no definite answers. In the end, it will not make you feel much better. Aim at avoiding this emotional trap of self-pity or looking to put the blame on someone else.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">EMBRACE YOUR CAREGIVING CHOICE<\/mark><strong>.<\/strong><br>Admit that, although you may experience resentment and a lot of pressure, providing care was a conscious decision that you yourself have made. Concentrate more on the positive intentions that led to this choice. The deep, meaningful motivations that keep you going every day could help you overcome challenging times.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">LOOK FOR THE SILVER LINING.<\/mark><br>Remind yourself of\u00a0 how being a caregiver has made you more powerful and how it has helped you connect more with your loved one or the rest of your family.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">DON\u2019T LET CAREGIVING TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE.<\/mark><br>Because it\u2019s fairly easy to come to terms with a difficult situation when your other life areas are rewarding, it is of high importance to not saturate your whole life. Invest in the things which provide you with meaning and purpose, regardless of whether it\u2019s your family, church, a favorite hobby, or your career.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">FOCUS ON THE THINGS YOU CAN CONTROL.<\/mark><br>It is not possible to make the days longer or insist that your sibling helps you out more often. Instead of stressing about issues that are not under your control, try and direct your focus on the way you choose to react to them.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">CELEBRATE THE SMALL VICTORIES.<\/mark><br>When you<strong> <\/strong>begin feeling downhearted,<strong> <\/strong>think back on all the great efforts you have put in and how much they mean. You are not required to treat the illness your loved one has in order to have an impact. Give yourself credit for how important it is that you offer your loved one safety, comfort, and love!<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">IMAGINE HOW YOUR LOVED ONE WOULD RESPOND IF THEY WERE HEALTHY.<\/mark><br>Provided your<strong> <\/strong>loved one didn\u2019t suffer from schizophrenia;<strong> <\/strong>how would they make sense of the love<br>and care you provide? Keep in mind that they would probably convey their appreciation more than they are currently able to.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">APPLAUD YOUR OWN EFFORTS.<\/mark><br>Seek ways to give yourself recognition and remuneration. Keep in mind the extent to which you are helping. In case you require<br>something tangible, try to compile a list of all the ways in which you as a caregiver are impactful, and refer back to it<br>when you catch yourself feeling low.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">NOTICE THE POSITIVE.<\/mark><br>When you devote time to acknowledging the positive instances in your life, the way you experience that day can improve. Try to note down at least one thing, item, or event per day or week that you found good. Despite how big or small it is (\u201cIt was a sunny day.\u201d), it is real and it matters, and it can make a difference in the way you perceive life.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">MAINTAIN YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR.<\/mark><br>Laughter is a great remedy for stress. Start reading a humorous book, watch comedies, or reach peers that make you laugh. If possible, aim at finding humor in mundane situations.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">PRIORITIZE ACTIVITIES THAT BRING YOU ENJOYMENT.<\/mark><br>Make sure you consistently devote time for hobbies that bring you joy, regardless of whether it is reading a book, doing some gardening, crafting in your garage, knitting, or taking a dog for a walk.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">FIND WAYS TO PAMPER YOURSELF.<\/mark><br>Small rewards can relieve stress and boost your spirits. Take a soothing bath and light some candles. Get a relaxing massage. Decorate your house with fresh flowers. Anything that would make you feel special.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">GET OUT OF THE HOUSE.<\/mark><br>It is important to get out of the house for some time. If the person you care for needs ongoing support, ask a friend or relative to step in for you for a couple of hours.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">SHARE YOUR FEELINGS.<\/mark><br>Communicating your experiences can be very relieving. Share how you feel with friends or family members. It will make you feel better, and it will strengthen your bond. Also, talk to the doctor treating your loved one about what you are going through. The better they understand your burden, the more significant impact it could have on improving family intervention programs, the progress of your loved one\u2019s illness, and your own well-being.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">JOIN A SUPPORT GROUP. <\/mark><br>Find out if there are caregiver support groups in your area. Being<br>part of a support group has many benefits that can improve your quality of life: they are a great source of useful information, they help you feel less lonely and isolated, and they help you regain a sense of control over your situation. Plus, you become part of a community that is always there for you. If there is no support group in your area that you can join in person, you can search for online groups which provide many of the same benefits.<br><br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">STUDY RELENTLESSLY.<\/mark><br>One of the most important ways you can avoid burnout is by learning as much as you can about the disease and how a person with schizophrenia needs to be taken care of. In this regard, it is essential to read books, selfhelp materials, and other resources such as this guidebook. They will give you the confidence you need to tackle difficult situations and will prepare you to offer the greatest care possible for your loved one.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"strongstrongmake-time-for-yourselfstrongstrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong><strong>Make time for yourself<\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">Being a caregiver to an individual with a mental illness can make it extremely difficult<br>to make time for yourself, as you may spend a lot of time contemplating or being consumed by thoughts about what you \u201cshould\u201d rather be doing. However, it is essential that you learn to <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF <\/mark>and not feel like you are being negligent of others (the individual you take care of and your family members too). Every bit of time you dedicate to yourself is significant. Spending even just 5 minutes per day out of the \u201ccaregiver mode\u201d when you are overloaded with responsibilities can act as a significant nudge to remind you of who you are in the grand scheme of things. It can prevent you from getting overwhelmed by all the responsibilities.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">START SMALL: <\/mark>remind yourself of the activities that brought you joy prior to assuming your role as a caregiver and try to introduce them back into your schedule. It is not how frequently or what you do that is important, but the action of taking time for it itself. Unless you take good care of yourself in the first place, it is not possible to do that for someone else.<br>\u00a0<br><mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">REMEMBER: <\/mark>being a caregiver is a major part of your life, however, it should not be the whole of it. Taking some time away will help you appreciate from a distance what you are doing.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-illustration-rea-illustration-block rea-illustration-block front\"><img class=\"illustration-bg\" alt=\"\"><div class=\"rea-illustration-block__content\"><div class=\"rea-illustration-block__image image-wrapper\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"is-blocked\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"illustration left\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Make-time-for-yourself.png\" style=\"max-width: 80%\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"rea-mobile illustration-mobile\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/mtasean.com\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Make-time-for-yourself.png\"><\/a><\/div><p class=\"rea-site__caption caption-text align-left\"><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-separator-rea-separator-block rea-separator-block front\"><div class=\"rea-separator-block__content\"><hr class=\"rea-separator-block__separator\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-title-rea-title-block rea-title-block front\"><div class=\"rea-title-block__content\"><h3 id=\"strongknow-your-limits-and-reach-out-for-helpstrong\" class=\"content-title \"><strong>Know your limits and reach out for help<\/strong><\/h3><h4 class=\"content-subtitle rea-hidden\"><\/h4><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rea-paragraph-rea-paragraph-block rea-paragraph-block front\"><div class=\"rea-paragraph-block__content\"><p class=\"content-text\">Assuming all caregiving responsibilities on yourself with no support is bound to burn you out. <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">DO NOT ATTEMPT TO MANAGE IT ALL BY YOURSELF<\/mark>. Sharing the responsibilities will allow you to find time to recharge.<br>The biggest help you can get is from the people who are closest to you. Tell your family that you need help and try to involve as many family members as possible, from the earliest stages. <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">TELL THEM SPECIFICALLY<\/mark> how you feel and what your needs are. Be straightforward about how you and the one you care for are doing. If you are concerned or are thinking of ways to make the situation better, make it known, even if you are not certain about their possible reaction. On the other hand, when someone offers assistance, do not be shy to <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">ACCEPT IT<\/mark>. Accepting the help of your friends and family members will also make them feel good about supporting you. Organize a team, with well-defined duties and responsibilities. For example, someone could be in charge of medical responsibilities, someone else could take care of financial duties and pay the bills, and someone else could do the grocery shopping and run errands.<br>This will provide you with more time for yourself, and involving family members will also strengthen family bonds. However, be ready to relinquish some control when you delegate certain tasks. People will not be as willing to help if you become authoritative, order others around, or are insistent about things being done a certain way.<br>Besides friends and family, you can also reach out for help in other places. Joining a <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">SUPPORT GROUP <\/mark>ensures that you meet other people who are facing challenges like yours and are concerned about similar matters. Discussing your experiences and hearing how other caregivers solve their challenges can be of great help. You may find that you have less time to stay connected with your friends or build new friendships. <br>Put more emphasis on the longterm perspective. If you are able to see your friend once per month or attend local social events every couple of months,<mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\"> IT ALREADY IS A WAY TO STAY IN TOUCH<\/mark>. This also provides the opportunity to connect with others on different levels.<br>\u00a0<br>\u00a0<br>While we have mostly talked about the responsibility of taking care of a person with<br>schizophrenia, caregiving also has <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">A SERIES OF BENEFITS<\/mark> that become apparent only after a certain amount of time. These benefits are often elusive during hard times, for example during a crisis, having difficulties maintaining a job, being in a strained relationship with other family members, or when the disease takes its toll on health, relationships, jobs, and finances. However, caregiving can provide you with countless moments that elicit joy or gratitude, like the reaction on your daughter\u2019s face when you hand her a piece of her favorite dessert or laugh together while watching a movie. <br>There are also small achievements, such as getting your loved one to take their medicine, or large ones such as them being able to return to their job. These moments can <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">HELP YOU FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE<\/mark> instead of the frustrating and overwhelming. They can also <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">RECHARGE YOUR BATTERIES<\/mark> and <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">GIVE YOU THE ENERGY<\/mark> you need to continue your tireless work as a caregiver.<br>Many of the benefits of caregiving are related to <mark style=\"background-color:#00d084\" class=\"has-inline-color\">SPIRITUAL GROWTH<\/mark>, as the time<br>spent taking care of a person with schizophrenia can change the way you see and appreciate life. It can make you become more responsible, appreciate the little things, or try to become a better human being.<br>As you\u2019ve seen throughout this guidebook, being a caregiver for a person with schizophrenia<br>can be one of the most challenging life experiences you can go through. Sometimes you make mistakes, most days you do not have time for yourself, and the entire experience can take a toll on your private life and career. 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